Dating a divorced dad with children speed dating the deep hull

We talk daily (if he has his son it’s usually by text, otherwise we chat by phone in the evenings), he makes it a point to see me once a week and we always have so much fun together.When we are together things are easy and fun, just as they should be!‘Divorce’ and ‘dad’ were two huge grown-up concepts for one single woman.Even though I was 39, neither marriage nor motherhood had ever featured in my life and so I had no idea what to expect. However the first 6 months there were a lot more hurdles to overcome, which led to the relationship breaking down. Yes, I knew that he was divorced and had two children, but just knowing that he did want kids was to overcome the first hurdle of dating him.Thank you for all of your clear and concise thoughts over the last few years.

Even if you’re thrilled about the prospect of meeting them, be aware that you need to be the one to fit into their lives, not the other way around.Our lives had been on very different paths before we met.I decided to take a risk on him though and it sure paid off, I couldn’t be happier.He already had two children already and even though in the first instance he said he wanted to have another with me, I knew that he had started to change his mind 3 months in as I could sense it and I ignored the signs as I didn't want to face the consequences of that outcome.Instead, confront your situation head on (if you want kids with a divorced guy) especially if he has children already.